Framingham Counseling & Healing Therapies · Westborough, MA
An earthy, compassionate listener with nearly 30 years of clinical experience — bringing warmth, depth, and advanced specialized training to every session.
"You don't have to have it all figured out to reach out. You just have to take one small step — and I'll meet you there."
Maybe you've just received a frightening diagnosis. Maybe you're exhausted from caring for someone you love. Maybe grief has settled in and you can't quite shake it. Maybe anxiety has been running the show for so long you've forgotten what calm feels like. Or maybe you simply know something needs to change — and you're not sure where to start.
Whatever brought you here, I want you to know: you are in the right place. I'm not here to hand you a workbook and send you on your way. I'm here to sit with you — really listen — and help you find your footing, at your own pace, in your own way.
I bring nearly 30 years of clinical experience to this work — including 27 years at Lahey Hospital Medical Center, where I walked alongside patients and families through some of the hardest moments a person can face. I know what serious illness looks like up close. I know what caregiving costs. And I know that healing is possible, even when it doesn't feel that way yet.
Not sure if this is the right fit? That's okay. Reach out anyway — staceykohlerlicsw@yahoo.com
Medicare · Medicaid · BCBS MA · Harvard Pilgrim · Tufts · Carelon · Cigna
Available via secure video
45 Lyman Street, Suite 19
Westborough, MA 01581
Are you a medical professional or referring colleague?
Medicare · Medicaid · BCBS MA · Harvard Pilgrim · Tufts · Carelon · Cigna
Available via secure video
45 Lyman Street, Suite 19
Westborough, MA 01581
Are you a medical professional or referring colleague?
About
DSW · LICSW · Nearly 30 Years of Clinical Experience
Dr. Stacey R. Kohler, DSW, LICSW
Having spent 27 years at Lahey Hospital Medical Center — including the Psychiatry & Behavioral Medicine Department, crisis response, outpatient services, the ALS/MDA clinic, COPD, dialysis, ICU, the emergency department, and end-of-life care — I understand the full spectrum of emotional, psychiatric, and psychological needs that patients and families face. I offer a trusted, clinically sophisticated referral resource for patients navigating serious illness, psychiatric crisis, and complex life circumstances. I welcome collaborative care relationships with medical teams, psychiatrists, and social workers.
Medicare · Medicaid · BCBS MA · Harvard Pilgrim · Tufts · Carelon · Cigna
Available via secure video
45 Lyman Street, Suite 19
Westborough, MA 01581
Dr. Kohler is the creator and host of Flourishing, a podcast for caregivers of autistic adults navigating the service cliff at age 22. Grounded in clinical expertise, lived experience, and genuine care for families who are often doing this alone.
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DSW · LICSW · Nearly 30 Years of Clinical Experience
Dr. Stacey R. Kohler, DSW, LICSW
I've been described as earthy and grounded — and honestly, that's the best compliment I could receive as a therapist. I came to this work with nearly 30 years of clinical experience, a deep respect for the whole person, and a belief that real healing rarely fits neatly into a protocol.
Dr. Kohler is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) and Doctor of Social Work (DSW), completing her doctoral degree at Simmons University School of Social Work. Her academic work centers on caregivers of autistic adults and the systemic service cliff at age 22 — the moment federally mandated school supports end.
For 27 years, I practiced at Lahey Hospital Medical Center — one of New England's premier academic medical centers. I worked in the Psychiatry & Behavioral Medicine Department, provided crisis response, and served patients across outpatient services, the ALS/MDA clinic, COPD, cognitive memory disorders, dialysis, ICU, the emergency department, and end-of-life care. Walking alongside patients through some of the hardest moments of their lives — that is where my clinical instincts were forged. Sophisticated, yes. But always deeply human.
Beyond my hospital career, I sought out the best teachers I could find. I completed a private intensive hypnotherapy training with Dr. Daniel P. Brown, PhD (2006–2009) — one of the world's foremost trauma and hypnotherapy experts — and nearly a decade of EMDR clinical consultation with Jocelyn Barnett, LICSW (2014–2023). I am also a certified Reiki Master. I believe deeply in continuing to grow, because my clients deserve a therapist who never stops learning.
I am the creator and host of Flourishing: Caregiving Autistic Adults, a podcast born from my DSW capstone at Simmons University and my own lived experience as a caregiver for autistic adults in my family. I wrote my doctoral work on the service cliff that families fall off at age 22 — when school-based supports end and families are largely left to figure it out alone. This work is personal to me. I also published earlier writings on Alzheimer's, ALS, and Parkinson's disease — conditions I know not just from the literature, but from years of sitting with patients and families who were living them.
Clinical Services
Integrative · Evidence-Based · Deeply Experienced
Dr. Kohler is an integrative therapist — not a protocol-driven clinician. While CBT-informed, she does not follow a rigid 12-session CBT model. Her approach weaves together nearly 30 years of medical social work experience, advanced training in EMDR under Jocelyn Barnett, LICSW, and intensive hypnotherapy training with Dr. Daniel P. Brown, PhD, alongside DBT, mindfulness, and strengths-based narrative therapy. Each treatment plan is tailored to the whole person — their history, their body, their strengths, and their goals. She has particular expertise in coping with medical illness, chronic conditions, caregiving, and the complex emotional world of autistic adults and their families.
Medicare · Medicaid · BCBS MA · Harvard Pilgrim · Tufts · Carelon · Cigna
Available via secure video
45 Lyman Street, Suite 19
Westborough, MA 01581
Individual adults & older adolescents
Patient Resources
Trusted information for patients, families & caregivers
Below you will find plain-language descriptions of conditions I have worked with throughout my nearly 30-year clinical career, along with trusted national resources and support groups. Use the filters to find what is most relevant to you or your loved one.
Feeling overwhelmed by what you're reading? That's okay — you don't have to navigate this alone. I am happy to help you make sense of these resources and find the right support for your situation. Reach out directly anytime.
A note from Dr. Kohler
These resources are a starting point — not a substitute for personalized care. Many of these conditions are ones I have walked alongside patients and families through for nearly 30 years. If you are unsure where to begin, or if you would simply like to talk, please reach out directly. Helping you find the right support is part of what I do. staceykohlerlicsw@yahoo.com
Contact & Referrals
Welcoming New Patients & Professional Referrals
With nearly 30 years of clinical experience — including 27 years at Lahey Hospital Medical Center — Dr. Kohler is an exceptional resource for clinicians seeking a skilled, experienced therapist for complex cases.
She has particular depth with patients navigating psychiatric crisis, ALS, MDA, COPD, dialysis, ICU recovery, end-of-life adjustment, and grief — and brings advanced specialty training in EMDR and hypnotherapy that few private practitioners can offer. Her background in the Psychiatry & Behavioral Medicine Department and crisis response at Lahey means she is equally comfortable with acute psychiatric presentations and complex medical cases.
Dr. Kohler welcomes collaborative relationships with medical teams, ALS clinic social workers, palliative care providers, and hospital discharge planners. Please feel free to reach out directly to discuss a referral.