Framingham Counseling & Healing Therapies  ·  Westborough, MA

Dr. Stacey R. Kohler, DSW, LICSW

An earthy, compassionate listener with nearly 30 years of clinical experience — bringing warmth, depth, and advanced specialized training to every session.

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Dr. Stacey R. Kohler, DSW, LICSW

"You don't have to have it all figured out to reach out. You just have to take one small step — and I'll meet you there."

Maybe you've just received a frightening diagnosis. Maybe you're exhausted from caring for someone you love. Maybe grief has settled in and you can't quite shake it. Maybe anxiety has been running the show for so long you've forgotten what calm feels like. Or maybe you simply know something needs to change — and you're not sure where to start.

Whatever brought you here, I want you to know: you are in the right place. I'm not here to hand you a workbook and send you on your way. I'm here to sit with you — really listen — and help you find your footing, at your own pace, in your own way.

I bring nearly 30 years of clinical experience to this work — including 27 years at Lahey Hospital Medical Center, where I walked alongside patients and families through some of the hardest moments a person can face. I know what serious illness looks like up close. I know what caregiving costs. And I know that healing is possible, even when it doesn't feel that way yet.

Not sure if this is the right fit? That's okay. Reach out anyway — staceykohlerlicsw@yahoo.com

What Working With Me Feels Like

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A Calm, Safe Space
Sessions are warm, unhurried, and judgment-free. You set the pace. There is no pressure to perform or have the right answers.
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Real, Practical Tools
You'll leave sessions with tools you can actually use — grounding techniques, calming strategies, ways to talk to yourself with more compassion and less criticism.
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Integrative & Personal
No rigid protocols. No one-size-fits-all model. Your treatment is built around you — your story, your strengths, your pace.
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You Matter Too
Especially for caregivers — we make space for you, not just the people you are holding up. Your wellbeing is not optional.

Insurance Accepted

Medicare · Medicaid · BCBS MA · Harvard Pilgrim · Tufts · Carelon · Cigna

Telehealth

Available via secure video

Location

45 Lyman Street, Suite 19
Westborough, MA 01581

Are you a medical professional or referring colleague?

What Working With Me Feels Like

🌿
A Calm, Safe Space
Sessions are warm, unhurried, and judgment-free. You set the pace. There is no pressure to perform or have the right answers.
🛠️
Real, Practical Tools
You'll leave sessions with tools you can actually use — grounding techniques, calming strategies, ways to talk to yourself with more compassion and less criticism.
💛
Integrative & Personal
No rigid protocols. No one-size-fits-all model. Your treatment is built around you — your story, your strengths, your pace.
🌸
You Matter Too
Especially for caregivers — we make space for you, not just the people you are holding up. Your wellbeing is not optional.

Insurance Accepted

Medicare · Medicaid · BCBS MA · Harvard Pilgrim · Tufts · Carelon · Cigna

Telehealth

Available via secure video

Location

45 Lyman Street, Suite 19
Westborough, MA 01581

Are you a medical professional or referring colleague?

About

Dr. Stacey R. Kohler, DSW, LICSW

DSW  ·  LICSW  ·  Nearly 30 Years of Clinical Experience

Dr. Stacey R. Kohler, DSW, LICSW

Dr. Stacey R. Kohler, DSW, LICSW

Nearly 30 years of clinical experience  ·  27 years at Lahey Hospital Medical Center  ·  Psychiatry & Behavioral Medicine · Crisis Response · ALS, MDA, COPD, ICU, End-of-Life · Outpatient

30
Years of Clinical Experience
27
Years at Lahey Hospital Medical Center
9
Years Advanced Hypnotherapy Training
9
Years EMDR Clinical Consultation

A Note to ALS Clinic Social Workers & Medical Colleagues

Having spent 27 years at Lahey Hospital Medical Center — including the Psychiatry & Behavioral Medicine Department, crisis response, outpatient services, the ALS/MDA clinic, COPD, dialysis, ICU, the emergency department, and end-of-life care — I understand the full spectrum of emotional, psychiatric, and psychological needs that patients and families face. I offer a trusted, clinically sophisticated referral resource for patients navigating serious illness, psychiatric crisis, and complex life circumstances. I welcome collaborative care relationships with medical teams, psychiatrists, and social workers.

Areas of Clinical Focus

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EMDR Therapy
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing for trauma, PTSD, anxiety, and adverse life experiences. Clinical consultation with Jocelyn Barnett, LICSW (2014–2023).
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Advanced Hypnotherapy
Private intensive training with Dr. Daniel P. Brown, PhD (2006–2009), one of the foremost hypnotherapy experts in the country — applied in trauma resolution, chronic pain, and anxiety.
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Trauma & PTSD
Integrative, deeply personalized trauma treatment — woven from EMDR, hypnotherapy, mindfulness, and 30 years of clinical wisdom. No two treatment plans look the same.
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Medical & Chronic Illness
Coping with a diagnosis — yours or a loved one's — is one of the hardest things a person can face. Dr. Kohler brings 27 years of hospital experience and a deeply human touch to this work.
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Grief & End-of-Life
Compassionate, unhurried support for individuals and families facing loss, anticipatory grief, or the emotional weight of life-limiting illness.
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Anxiety & Depression
Integrative, strengths-based care for anxiety and depression — CBT-informed, but never protocol-driven. Real conversations, real tools, real relief.
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Autism & Caregiver Support
For autistic adults and the caregivers who love them — clinical support grounded in neurodiversity-affirming practice and the lived experience of caregiving within Dr. Kohler's own family.
Reiki & Integrative Healing
As a certified Reiki Master, Dr. Kohler honors the whole person — mind, body, and spirit — weaving integrative healing alongside evidence-based psychotherapy.
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Telehealth
Secure, comfortable telehealth sessions available Available — from wherever you are in Massachusetts. Same warmth. Same care. Different screen.

Accepted Insurance

Medicare · Medicaid · BCBS MA · Harvard Pilgrim · Tufts · Carelon · Cigna

Telehealth

Available via secure video

Location

45 Lyman Street, Suite 19
Westborough, MA 01581

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Flourishing: Caregiving Autistic Adults

Dr. Kohler is the creator and host of Flourishing, a podcast for caregivers of autistic adults navigating the service cliff at age 22. Grounded in clinical expertise, lived experience, and genuine care for families who are often doing this alone.

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About

Dr. Stacey R. Kohler, DSW, LICSW

DSW  ·  LICSW  ·  Nearly 30 Years of Clinical Experience

Dr. Stacey R. Kohler, DSW, LICSW

Dr. Stacey R. Kohler, DSW, LICSW

I've been described as earthy and grounded — and honestly, that's the best compliment I could receive as a therapist. I came to this work with nearly 30 years of clinical experience, a deep respect for the whole person, and a belief that real healing rarely fits neatly into a protocol.

Dr. Kohler is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) and Doctor of Social Work (DSW), completing her doctoral degree at Simmons University School of Social Work. Her academic work centers on caregivers of autistic adults and the systemic service cliff at age 22 — the moment federally mandated school supports end.

For 27 years, I practiced at Lahey Hospital Medical Center — one of New England's premier academic medical centers. I worked in the Psychiatry & Behavioral Medicine Department, provided crisis response, and served patients across outpatient services, the ALS/MDA clinic, COPD, cognitive memory disorders, dialysis, ICU, the emergency department, and end-of-life care. Walking alongside patients through some of the hardest moments of their lives — that is where my clinical instincts were forged. Sophisticated, yes. But always deeply human.

Beyond my hospital career, I sought out the best teachers I could find. I completed a private intensive hypnotherapy training with Dr. Daniel P. Brown, PhD (2006–2009) — one of the world's foremost trauma and hypnotherapy experts — and nearly a decade of EMDR clinical consultation with Jocelyn Barnett, LICSW (2014–2023). I am also a certified Reiki Master. I believe deeply in continuing to grow, because my clients deserve a therapist who never stops learning.

I am the creator and host of Flourishing: Caregiving Autistic Adults, a podcast born from my DSW capstone at Simmons University and my own lived experience as a caregiver for autistic adults in my family. I wrote my doctoral work on the service cliff that families fall off at age 22 — when school-based supports end and families are largely left to figure it out alone. This work is personal to me. I also published earlier writings on Alzheimer's, ALS, and Parkinson's disease — conditions I know not just from the literature, but from years of sitting with patients and families who were living them.

Credentials & Training

Doctoral Degree
Doctor of Social Work (DSW), Simmons University School of Social Work
Licensure
Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW), Massachusetts
Hospital Career
27 years, Lahey Hospital Medical Center — Psychiatry & Behavioral Medicine, Crisis Response, Outpatient, ALS/MDA, COPD, Dialysis, ICU, ED, End-of-Life
Hypnotherapy
Private Intensive Training, Dr. Daniel P. Brown, PhD (2006–2009)
EMDR
Clinical Consultation, Jocelyn Barnett, LICSW (2014–2023)
Reiki
Reiki Master Certification
Practice
Framingham Counseling & Healing Therapies, Westborough, MA
Insurance
Medicare · Medicaid · BCBS MA · Harvard Pilgrim · Tufts · Carelon · Cigna

Career & Training Timeline

1990s – Present
Nearly 30 Years in Clinical Practice
Hospital-based and private practice social work across medical, psychiatric, and community settings.
Lahey Hospital · 27 Years
Lahey Hospital Medical Center
Psychiatry & Behavioral Medicine Department, Crisis Response, Outpatient Services, ALS/MDA Clinic, COPD, Cognitive Memory Disorders, Dialysis, ICU, Emergency Department, End-of-Life Care.
2006 – 2009
Advanced Hypnotherapy — Dr. Daniel P. Brown, PhD
Private intensive training with one of the world's leading hypnotherapy and trauma experts.
2014 – 2023
EMDR Clinical Consultation — Jocelyn Barnett, LICSW
Nine years of advanced EMDR consultation and clinical development.
2024 – 2025
Doctor of Social Work — Simmons University
DSW conferred. Capstone: Flourishing: Caregiving Autistic Adults podcast, addressing the service cliff at age 22.

Clinical Services

What I Offer

Integrative · Evidence-Based · Deeply Experienced

Dr. Kohler is an integrative therapist — not a protocol-driven clinician. While CBT-informed, she does not follow a rigid 12-session CBT model. Her approach weaves together nearly 30 years of medical social work experience, advanced training in EMDR under Jocelyn Barnett, LICSW, and intensive hypnotherapy training with Dr. Daniel P. Brown, PhD, alongside DBT, mindfulness, and strengths-based narrative therapy. Each treatment plan is tailored to the whole person — their history, their body, their strengths, and their goals. She has particular expertise in coping with medical illness, chronic conditions, caregiving, and the complex emotional world of autistic adults and their families.

Specialized Modalities

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EMDR Therapy
Evidence-based trauma treatment using bilateral stimulation to process and resolve distressing memories. Particularly effective for PTSD, complex trauma, anxiety, phobias, and grief. Dr. Kohler received clinical consultation with Jocelyn Barnett, LICSW, from 2014–2023.
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Advanced Hypnotherapy
Following a private 3-year intensive training with Dr. Daniel P. Brown, PhD — one of the most respected hypnotherapy and dissociation experts in the world — Dr. Kohler applies clinical hypnotherapy for trauma, chronic pain, anxiety, and performance.
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Trauma & PTSD
Comprehensive, integrative trauma treatment. Dr. Kohler's hospital background — working with ALS patients, ICU survivors, end-of-life care — means she understands trauma across the full arc of human experience.
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Integrative Psychotherapy
Dr. Kohler is an integrative therapist — not a protocol-driven clinician. While CBT-informed, she does not follow a fixed 12-session CBT model. Instead, she draws on 30 years of medical social work, EMDR, advanced hypnotherapy, DBT, mindfulness, and strengths-based narrative therapy, weaving them together based on each individual's needs and story.
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Medical & Serious Illness
27 years at Lahey Hospital Medical Center bring unmatched expertise in supporting patients with ALS, MDA, COPD, dialysis, ICU recovery, cognitive decline, and life-limiting illness.
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Grief & Bereavement
Compassionate, clinically sophisticated grief support — including anticipatory grief, sudden loss, complicated grief, and caregiver bereavement.
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Anxiety & Depression
Integrated treatment for anxiety disorders, depression, and mood challenges. Dr. Kohler tailors her approach to the whole person — not just the diagnosis.
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Autism & Caregiver Support
Clinical support for autistic adults and their caregivers, grounded in neurodiversity-affirming practice and lived experience as a caregiver of autistic adults.
Reiki & Integrative Healing
As a certified Reiki Master, Dr. Kohler integrates energy healing into a holistic clinical approach — honoring mind, body, and spirit alongside evidence-based psychotherapy.

Accepted Insurance

Medicare · Medicaid · BCBS MA · Harvard Pilgrim · Tufts · Carelon · Cigna

Telehealth

Available via secure video

In-Person

45 Lyman Street, Suite 19
Westborough, MA 01581

Session Type

Individual adults & older adolescents

Patient Resources

Conditions, Support & Resources

Trusted information for patients, families & caregivers

Below you will find plain-language descriptions of conditions I have worked with throughout my nearly 30-year clinical career, along with trusted national resources and support groups. Use the filters to find what is most relevant to you or your loved one.

Feeling overwhelmed by what you're reading? That's okay — you don't have to navigate this alone. I am happy to help you make sense of these resources and find the right support for your situation. Reach out directly anytime.

Neurological
ALS (Lou Gehrig's Disease)
A progressive disease affecting nerve cells in the brain and spinal cord, gradually limiting movement, speech, and breathing. I worked extensively in the ALS/MDA clinic at Lahey Hospital. Emotional support, advance care planning, and caregiver respite are central concerns.
Neurological
Alzheimer's & Dementia
A progressive brain disorder affecting memory, thinking, and behavior. Grief, identity loss, and caregiver burnout are common emotional challenges. I have written on Alzheimer's from both clinical and scholarly perspectives.
Neurological
Parkinson's Disease
A brain disorder affecting movement and, over time, cognition and mood. Depression and anxiety are common and often undertreated. Social connection and counseling are key supports. I have written on Parkinson's from a clinical social work perspective.
Respiratory
COPD
Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease causes persistent breathing difficulty. Anxiety, depression, and social isolation are very common. I worked with COPD patients throughout my years at Lahey Hospital. Counseling and peer support significantly improve quality of life.
Renal
Dialysis & Kidney Disease
Dialysis is a life-sustaining treatment requiring significant lifestyle adjustment. Fatigue, grief, and financial stress are common. Social workers play a central role in dialysis care teams — a role I carried out directly at Lahey Hospital Medical Center.
Serious Illness
End-of-Life Care
The end of life is one of the most profound human experiences — for the person dying and for those who love them. Counseling, advance care planning, and spiritual support can bring clarity, connection, and peace. This is an area I hold with deep respect and care.
Serious Illness
Palliative Care
Palliative care focuses on comfort, dignity, and quality of life at any stage of serious illness — not just at the end. It addresses pain, emotional distress, and family needs alongside medical treatment. You do not have to be dying to benefit from palliative care.
Caregiving
Caregiver Burnout & Support
Caregiving for a loved one with serious illness is one of the most demanding roles a person can take on. Respite, peer support, and individual counseling help caregivers sustain themselves. Your wellbeing is not optional — it is essential.
Caregiving
Caregiving Autistic Adults
Families face a significant service cliff at age 22 when school-based supports end. Navigating adult services, housing, and employment is complex and often isolating for caregivers. This is the focus of my DSW capstone and my podcast, Flourishing.
Mental Health
Grief & Bereavement
Grief is not a problem to be solved — it is a natural response to loss. Counseling, peer support, and time all play a role. Support groups can be especially powerful for those who feel alone in their sorrow.
Mental Health
Traumatic Grief & Sudden Loss
When loss is sudden, unexpected, or violent, grief can feel overwhelming and disorienting in ways that differ from anticipated loss. Trauma-informed support is often needed alongside traditional grief counseling — this is where my EMDR and hypnotherapy training become especially relevant.
Mental Health
Anxiety & Depression
Both are among the most common responses to serious illness, caregiving, and loss — and among the most treatable. Therapy, peer connection, and self-compassion all make a real difference. You do not have to white-knuckle your way through this.

A note from Dr. Kohler

These resources are a starting point — not a substitute for personalized care. Many of these conditions are ones I have walked alongside patients and families through for nearly 30 years. If you are unsure where to begin, or if you would simply like to talk, please reach out directly. Helping you find the right support is part of what I do.  staceykohlerlicsw@yahoo.com

Contact & Referrals

Get in Touch

Welcoming New Patients & Professional Referrals

Practice Information

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Address Framingham Counseling & Healing Therapies
45 Lyman Street, Suite 19
Westborough, MA 01581
💻
Telehealth Available via secure video
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Insurance Accepted Medicare · Medicaid · BCBS MA · Harvard Pilgrim · Tufts · Carelon · Cigna

A Note to Referring Colleagues

With nearly 30 years of clinical experience — including 27 years at Lahey Hospital Medical Center — Dr. Kohler is an exceptional resource for clinicians seeking a skilled, experienced therapist for complex cases.

She has particular depth with patients navigating psychiatric crisis, ALS, MDA, COPD, dialysis, ICU recovery, end-of-life adjustment, and grief — and brings advanced specialty training in EMDR and hypnotherapy that few private practitioners can offer. Her background in the Psychiatry & Behavioral Medicine Department and crisis response at Lahey means she is equally comfortable with acute psychiatric presentations and complex medical cases.

Dr. Kohler welcomes collaborative relationships with medical teams, ALS clinic social workers, palliative care providers, and hospital discharge planners. Please feel free to reach out directly to discuss a referral.

Email Dr. Kohler

Framingham Counseling & Healing Therapies  ·  45 Lyman Street, Suite 19, Westborough, MA 01581

staceykohlerlicsw@yahoo.com  ·  Flourishing Podcast

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